Get Ex Back - Keeping In Touch With The Ex

Keeping In Touch With The Ex

Do NOT confuse keeping in touch
with the ominous 'lets be friends'.

While 'let's be friends' sends waves
of panic to the receiver, it is really
quite neutral.

It's the amount of contact after the
words 'let's be friends' that is the
dead give away.

Hearing 'let's be friends' and then
ZERO contact means, you got a whole lot
of work ahead of you.

However, if it is followed up by any
means of regular contact, such as:

1. Phone calls
2. Text messages
3. IM's
4. Surprise visits

This means something MUCH DIFFERENT.

( IMPORTANT NOTE: If you have kids, pets or shared
property then any relevant conversation regarding
those topics does NOT count as contact. But, if it often
strays into other topics, then do count that as 'keeping
in touch'.)

In my correspondence and assistance of hundreds
of other couples I have concluded two reasons.

One reason is shiny, bright and sounds good. Which
is they really do fear losing the friendship. (very rare)

The second, although darker, rings true far
more often is...

They are keeping you on a tether as an 'emergency
backup' relationship. In case:

1. The relationship they are currently in (sometimes
secretly) bombs out.

or..

2. Nothing better comes along.

This is so common. Hardly a day goes by that
I don't talk with someone that is so confused
because their ex keeps giving off positive signals,
but as soon as they 'act' on one of those signals,
the ex goes BERSERK and reconfirms that they ARE NOT
in a relationship.

While finding yourself on either side or both
of those reasons will suck a little pep from
your stride, there is a silver lining.

It means you are still the #1 romantic interest
in their life.

They may not want to feel that way! They will
never admit it to themselves or you. But, they
still see you as #1

As long as they have you on the 'tether', they
are feeling unsure of how their current relationship
or life for that matter will turn out without you.

In my experience, This is a favorable 'hand of
cards' for you and if you play those cards as I lay out
in the Magic Of Making Up System, you'll have better
odds at getting them back than any game you'll
ever play in Las Vegas.


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How to Get Your Ex Back - The Simple Guide

How to Get Your Ex Back - The Simple Guide


Almost every adult has experienced a break up sometime during their life, and most of the time they just learn how to move on.

But what if you're not one of those people that likes to play the victim? You want your ex back and you're willing to do a little work to make it happen. That's a good and smart choice.

Fact is, around 90% of all break ups can be reversed...if you know the steps you need to take to win back your ex. We'll talk about some of those in a second, but first I want to point out that you'll find some amazing resources down at the bottom of this article. These are the best sites I've found at laying out a step-by-step, easy to follow gameplan for getting back together. You owe it to yourself to take a look.

Okay, now on to some tips...

The first step in learning how to get back together with your ex is to determine why exactly the breakup occurred. Even though you can't go back into the past to change the reason the breakup occurred, you can learn from the mistake and try to grow from it.

The breakup may have occurred because of one specific event, or even from a behavior that your ex didn't want to deal with anymore. No matter what the reason for the breakup was, you need to find out the specifics so you can learn how to deal with the situation later on. When you follow the plan outlined at the sites below, you will get your ex back. But this time you want to keep the relationship together, right? So that's step one.

The next step is to make sure you don't make yourself seem needy. Even though almost everyone feels like they need to express to their ex that they cannot live without them, there is no point in telling them that. Instead stay strong, let your ex see that you are okay by yourself, and show everyone around you that you have self confidence and you are happy with yourself. Seeming needy or desperate will only push your ex further away, so make sure to maintain your confidence to get him to crawl right back to you.

This is one of the main points you'll learn when you visit the sites I tell you about below. In fact, you'll learn exactly what to say and how to say it. This one little technique alone can plant the idea in your ex's head that they made a mistake. It's very powerful!

Trying to make your ex jealous is one of the worst things you can do if you want to get back with your ex, since all it is going to do is show him that you have moved on and that he should do the same. Instead, you want him to think that he was the best thing in your life, and that nobody compares to what he had to offer you. By boosting his confidence without seeming needy, he will soon realize the two of you were great together despite the small fight or differences. Also, avoid getting upset if he is seeing someone else, because you won't be able to stop it no matter what you try.

Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems the two of you are having as long as you've followed the lessons outlined in the sites below first.

If you go in unprepared, or do what most people do, not only will a get-together with your ex not result in you two getting back together, it will probably wind up making things worse.

Getting back with your ex isn't rocket science, but you need to make sure you are behaving correctly to make him realize he is better off with you. Acting needy or childish will only push your ex further away, and that's the opposite of what you want to do, right.

Just follow the steps and the plan as outlined on the sites below and you'll be all set. Good luck!

Throughout this story I've been referring to a step-by-step gameplan anyone can follow to win back their ex. Here's where you can find it: watch this quick video (it's under 10 minutes) that explains the entire process. I bet this will turn out to be the smartest thing you do all day.

Next, this get ex back guide will help you understand what went wrong in your relationship to begin with. Good luck with everything. I hope this helps!


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5 Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

5 Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

Pining for someone who doesn't feel the same way can be utter torture. Sometimes after a break up, the woman will still be deeply in love with her ex boyfriend. Seeing him and knowing that he's decided to break free from the relationship is difficult. However, it's important to remember that many people do suffer through a split only to be reunited and the relationship ends up stronger than ever. If you want another chance with the man you love, don't give up all hope. Instead, remember that he may be feeling just as confused as you are. There are five signs that your boyfriend still loves you that every woman should be aware of.

One of the signs that your boyfriend still loves you is that he'll want to save the friendship aspect of the relationship. If he suggests that the two of your remain friends after the dating relationship ends, that's a signal that he's still carrying some feelings for you. Never take this as a bad sign. You can use the friendship to leverage yourself as someone important and trustworthy in his life.

Another clue that he's still carrying a torch for you is he'll constantly be contacting you. It may be via phone, text or email but he'll do it on a pretty regular basis. It can be something as simple as him saying "good morning" or a quick "hello" but it's a clear indicator that he doesn't want to break completely away from you.

If he says he misses you, yet you two talk on a fairly regular basis, take this as one of the signs he still loves you. When he says he misses you that has a deeper meaning than it might first appear. He's missing the closeness and the romance that you two once shared. Take this to mean that he's starting to reconsider the status of the relationship and exactly what you mean to him.

If he starts asking about your dating status, he may be asking because he wonders where he stands. Be honest with him regarding who you are seeing or not seeing. Don't try and make him jealous by telling him all about an imaginary, perfect boyfriend. Some men are emotionally conflicted when the woman they love is dating someone else. They may even pull back forever if they believe she's happy with someone new.

The last of the signs that your ex boyfriend still loves you is his demeanor when he's around you. If you two are out for a friendly coffee or dinner and he seems nervous, that may signal that he's trying to bury his true feelings. Try and make him as comfortable as possible and if you are feeling the same way, let him know. One of you has to fess up at some point about your true feelings if you have any hope of a happy future together.

It's obviously important that you think through each and every move when you are trying to get your boyfriend back. Most women have no idea that everything they say and do after a break up potentially impacts the chance of a reunion. To find out more about what steps are necessary to get your boyfriend back, including what not to do, visit this Helpful Site!

5 Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You


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How to Have Your Ex Begging to Take You Back

How to Have Your Ex Begging to Take You Back


Relationships...Sometimes you have to wonder if they're worth it. All the pain and anguish and baggage that comes along with the person you just happen to be hooked up with. But then you think about the alternative, the loneliness and heartbreak of being alone, and relationships aren't so bad. As a happily married man of 24 plus years, I can honestly say I wouldn't want it any other way. Don't get me wrong, you're going to have your down times. And sometimes...your breakups. Well, if your ex has shown you the door, you might want to read this article. It could very well be the start of getting back together with the one you love.

I didn't get smart right away. I used to be a total idiot when it came to the opposite sex. My wife and I almost didn't make it. Heck, we almost didn't even get married at all. And if I'm honest with myself, it was pretty much all my fault. I was a total jackass. But I've learned a lot since then and my marriage couldn't be better. Why? Because I understand what it takes to make a relationship work and how to get the one you love to forgive you even when it seems like things are hopeless.

For starters, you need to communicate. And that starts with swallowing your pride. Oh yes, pride is the number one reason why people don't talk. They can't admit that they screwed up. Well, until you can do that, you're fighting a losing battle. So swallow your pride and have a heart to heart with your ex. Put all your cards out on the table. If this is the first time you've done this, your ex will have the most shocked look on his or her face.

The next key is to get your ex to see both sides. Once you open up, this is easier to do. See, when somebody makes the effort to say, "You're right, I screwed up", the natural reaction is for the other person to say, "Oh, it's not all your fault" and then they start listing all the things that they did wrong. And then all of a sudden, you're communicating. Trust me, I know. I've done this dance with my wife many times. But YOU have to make the first move.

In my signature you'll find a review of a great book on this subject. Please read it. If getting your ex back is at the top of your wish list, then this is a must read. I wish this book was out when I was young. I would have learned this stuff a lot sooner.

To YOUR Relationship Success,

Martin J Waterson

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Ways To Get Your Ex Back - 5 Tips On How To Get Your Man Back

Ways To Get Your Ex Back


This has got to be a sad day in your life. Your man of three years has decided to breakup with you. Now you are searching for tips on how to get your man back. It is funny, the things you will do when it comes to finding ways to get your ex back.

Here are five things you can do. There is no certain order for you to follow, just start off where you feel the most comfortable.


1. Find out exactly what it was that made him want to call it off. If it was something you done, tell him you are sorry. It could be something you done and you just did not realize it. You see sometimes we do things and do not know that it is bothering the one we love.


2. You can not keep bringing up the past. Let it go, whatever it was. Bringing up the past can make things worse. He does not want to hear nor does he want to talk about the what he or you did to each other months ago. Whatever happened in the past, let that be a lesson learned for the both of you.


3. Talk about the things that made the two of you happy. It is okay to talk about the things that you did not like about each other. Talking about those things will let the two of you know what not to do. That way you will not get on each other nerves doing those things.


4. Remember where you first meet and that special song that was playing when the two of you first got together. Take him back to those moments in his life. You will find that the little things such as those can rekindle the fire you once had with each other.


5. Do not hold back your feelings for him. Let him know that you are still in love with him. Telling him how much you care about him and how he makes you feel when the two of you are together will make him feel special. You see, deep down inside he really do miss you.


This is only 5 tips on how to get your man back that you can try. There are plenty of other ways to get your ex back. Take some time out for yourself and think about the situation. What did you do to get his attention and keep it in the first place and go from there.


Ways To Get Your Ex Back


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This Is My Story Of How I Got My Ex Boyfriend Back

This will not be long. I will make it as short as I can, but to the point.

I met him in 1986. We dated for a few months, and then I became pregnant. Before that we were as happy as can be. I am sure some you can relate to this. Anyway, after I became pregnant, he decided he wanted his freedom. What just happened, beats the hell out of me.


So me being the weak one at the time, I beg him, please don't do this. I told him, we are having a baby together, I love you. That did not seem to matter at all to him. Nothing I said or did would change his mind.


So, I gave him what he wanted. I stop calling him, I would not talk to him, and I did not threaten him in any kind of way. Once he noticed that I had let it all go, here he comes. Talking about, how he wants me back. How he wants us to be a family.


I wanted so bad bad to curse his ass out, but I could not do it. But we are together now, married, three daughters and a grand baby. This is something I had to discover on my own. You do not have too. I found a book that has every secret I used. At least I thought it was a secret. All you need is this book The Magic Of Making UP and everything else he supplies. I should have written it myself, didn't think of it soon enough.


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Should I date while trying to win back my ex?

Should I Date While Trying To Win Back My Ex?


Question:


"Sorry for bombarding you with questions! I read in Magic Of Making Up that a little outside dating can help our relationship come back together. However, knowing her, I think this will just make her a little more distant. I also don't have the motivation and interest to date other girls. Is it really important to take this step or can I just skip it?"

The answer:

I know this is not popular advice. It's
so counterintuitive to our logic AND our
emotions (like much of Magic Of Making Up)
when we are so in love with someone else.

We also fear that we will anger our
ex further...or like you stated, make
her more distant.

But when you think about it? The only
reason they could become angry is
because...

because?

THEY STILL CARE!!

Right?

Why would they possibly be upset
if they didn't care?

See? (remember Clue #1?)

No matter what they SAY...

But here is the BIGGEST REASON, not
the only reason, but the biggest reason
why I get so many letters from people
that go out on a few dates and then
"out of the blue" the ex starts pursuing
them.

Here it is...

Because you can SAY you are okay
with the breakup. You can SAY you
are happy and moving on. You can
SAY to your ex that they are going
to lose you forever...

You can SAY ANYTHING until the
cows come home...

But...

When you ACTUALLY go out on a date with
someone else, that ACTION speaks
louder than ANY WORDS YOU CAN SAY.

It S-H-O-W-S your ex that you are moving
on and you may be gone forever.

Even if they seem upset, in fact, ESPECIALLY
when they seem upset...this is the
position you want to maneuver into if you ever
want to get them chasing you.

This is psychological pull...instead of
you pushing.

Make sense?

And one more thing...

Dating someone else changes YOU on the
inside. For too many reasons to list
all of them here, but here are a couple:

*It squelches that 'irrational fear' that
we will end up all alone.

*We temporarily refocus our attention
on someone else other than our ex.

And this is a much healthier position
to come from when trying to attract
anybody...

Yeah?

So, even though I know how tough
it is...please go on a few dates.

It is really good for you and will
speed up your reunion.

Rooting For You,

Get Your Ex Back

Fastest Way To Get Your Ex Back


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Should I Date While Trying To Win Back My Ex?

The Magic Of Breaking Up Testimonials

The Magic Of Breaking Up Testimonials


Just in case you are wondering, are these people for real? The answer is "yes" they are. There names and testimonials are true. These are real live people who have applied every word that was given to them. They are very satisfied with the results and you will be too.


Works For Long Distance Relationships Too...


Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a 21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in ...By now, I had the strength to actually "sleep on it" and sent him a response the next day...within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.

Thanks again,
Denise



Dating Again!



Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic... i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can't believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line - now I am so much stronger and happier. I'm still going to take things slowly with my ex (I'm not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can't believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.

Alice



Ex POPS The Question...



...just an email to say thanks for all the support and knowledge. my boyfriend has just proposed. we are the happiest we have ever been. wedding booked for 2011.

many thanks,
Jenna



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Talking Again...



Just wanted to say THANKS!!



Me and my ex are talking now. The letter thing worked, even though I thought it wouldn't....



-Delois



Best Money Ever Spent...


You are the best!!! After one day, again one day, my changed attitude had my ex calling and wanting to see me. I won't take his calls but this showed me that the changes you showed me, worked...you have helped me more than you will ever know...
Thanks and keep up the good work. Best money I ever spent!!!
Melissa

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Casey gets his girl back!



I have good news, my ex did get back with me! She said to me the guy she went out with before was a cover up and she was lying to herself the whole time. Thanks for the support.



Casey



Married Again...



got him back we were married again on the 25th of January ....



Linda



Not A Scam...



I am beside myself that something actually came of this...

I was SO skeptical putting in $39 to an e-book. I was positive it would be a waste of money, and there wouldn't even be a book as promised.

PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES.

I was beside myself.

Thank you so much...

Sara



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"Impossible Not To Work"



Just wanted to let you know your advice is so rational and so sound... At such a horrible and tough time it is reassuring to read the correct way to handle yourself and go about respecting someone's wishes (a breakup) but at the same time try to get them back. A lot of people don't realize how simple and easy it is, patience is a virtue and because of you ... I am now dating the love of my life again, we were together for 4 years, split for only 2 1/2 months and are now back together. I did what you... told me was the ONLY option and it worked. If it is true love and meant to be, your advice is impossible not to work. Thanks for the guidance. You're a good man!

CC



"On her hands and knees"



well it tool some time but i got my girl back. she pretty [much] got down on her hands and knees coming back to me thanks buddy.



Rob



Talking Like Friends Again!



I have just downloaded the materials from the website. I am eager to read and learn.

I ALREADY HAVE WONDERFUL NEWS!!

Just from the video via your website, before attaining the reading materials, I
talked with my ex yesterday for 40 MINUTES!! It has been months since we have
talked that long like friends. He even hinted around that we could have a
future together. MY ATTITUDE WAS DIFFERENT!! I WAS FRIENDLY AND ACTED LIKE THE
BREAKUP IS OK!!

Thanks for the free advice and I can't wait to get to reading!!
I'll keep in touch.


Tiffany



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Back Together...



Guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i took your advice and my ex- boyfriend and i are back together again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and thanks 4 the advice AGIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Adrian



Back Together...Effortlessly...


I am happy to report that my Ex and I are now happily back together. I have to say it was effortlessly done! I thank you for all of your great information.
Cheryl


Pleasantly Surprised...


I have received your guide entitled The Magic of Making Up and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the advice contained therein...[removed due to sensitive nature]
Jacquelynn
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"Dude It's Working..."


DUUDE ITS WORKING MAN. After a few weeks of being cool and ok with it, i said we should be friends, and now shes saying im going to give you another chance to get to know me, and if im paying attention to her like i said i would, then ill find the right time to ask her out... thank you!
Taylor


Can't Believe This Worked...



OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH! I GOT MY EX BACK JUST AN HOUR AGO ! I CANT BELIEVE THIS WORKED ! ! !



Tiger



Planning A Beach Getaway!



Just wanted to thank you for all your help! Your book is amazing and got my man and I back together within a few weeks of reading it. Now to clarify, it had already been some time since we had even spoken to each other, and I was really starting to miss him. I read your instructions very carefully and fallowed them to the tee, and it worked! ... I could not have done it without you! We are now blissfully celebrating are Birthdays together, and are even planning a beach getaway just us two.

Thank you sooooo much!!!



Lena



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Finally Married!!



thanks for all you help and encouraging words,quotes and what to do. He proposed and we are finally married thank you very much.



Antonett



Another "OMG!!! This Works" Note...



OMG!!! This totally worked....nothing I had tried worked and then I texted him that message and he returned my call!! I cannot wait to see where this goes....



Jessica



Broke Part Of The Wall Between Us...


I downloaded your book and me and my ex talked for an hour and a half. IT was the first time we talked since November of last year! I followed the instructions in the book and am happy with the fact that we were able to just talk even though no progress was made as far as getting back together yet. She is still living with her boyfriend, but I feel like we broke part of the wall between us.
If this book helps me to get her back, I will drive to Arkansas and personally shake your hand! So, on that note, hopefully I'll see ya soon! :)
Will in Concord, NC


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Married And Happier Than Ever...


Thanks Tdub, I listened to a couple of your emails and used them with my former ex and now we are married and happier than ever you are a God and I owe a lot of this to you.

Thanks man.
John

Have A Date This Friday...


Well, My ex and I are talking a little bit more now. He text me yesterday and said that he missed me. He also told me he still loves me. And we have a date this Friday...[removed due to personal nature]

Sep


Most Informative...


hey Tdub! how's it goin'? i watched your video, and i must say, it's the most *and you're the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.

Dianna

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Back Together In One Week...



I did buy the book, and got back togeether in one week. [removed due to personal nature]



Gina



Ex Flying Back From England!



Hi there! Wishing you a very happy Christmas too! Thank you so much for your help, your ideas really managed to open my eyes and to see you from another perspective!!i never used to think of it that way. I have learned a lot about myself too, and i now know how to speak to him whilst keeping in control of the situation at the same time. My ex and i had a long distance relationship and he is flying over to see me here in England to try and sort all this mess out!

Regards and many thanks
Nadia



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The Magic Of Making Up Frequently Asked Questions

The Magic Of Making Up Frequently Asked Questions



What if I order and for some reason it just doesn't work for me?

It is my opinion, like we talked about earlier that there really is no impossible situation, but I have been wrong before and if for some weird reason it doesn't work for you…or even if you are not absolutely delighted FOR ANY REASON…please, I WANT you to get a refund. In fact, you have a full 56 days before you have to decide. How cool is that?



Can't I just find this information free on the internet?

I LOVE to save my money and find stuff free when I can, but I know for a fact that the only place on the planet that you can get your hands on what is inside The Magic Of Making UP is right here. See, I have spent hours looking at what is available…and some of it is tepidly okay…but you don't get the WHOLE PICTURE…and reading an article or two without really understanding what you are doing…can really hurt your chances rather than improve them.



What about the other "Get Your Ex Back" books? What about your competition?

Fair question…I won't say anything bad about them. At the same time I can sum up what "my competition" charges you for in just a few sentences…



I have bought them ALL…Do you want a summary of all of them?

Okay…here's what nearly every one of them tell you in just a different way…



"Do not contact your ex for 30 days…and during that 30 days work on yourself."



THAT'S IT!...Can you believe it? …that is what they tell you to do for EVERY situation! Some take 50 pages to say it…some take less…and some give a little more okay advice, but in my opinion they do not give you the tools you really need!



Frankly, there are some situations…where all you really need is a good apology…make the apology the right way (like I show you in The Magic Of Making Up) and you and your honey will "ride off into the sunset".



When will I receive The Magic Of Making Up?

Great question. You will receive it immediately after you have ordered because it is a downloadable book (ebook). So you will have it on your hard drive and in your hands in moments. It is very safe, reliable and so easy a caveman could download it.



Can I read The Magic Of Making Up on a Mac?

Yes! The Magic Of Making Up is in PDF format so it is viewable on PCs as well as Macs.



What if I have a question about something in The Magic Of Making Up?

Terrific! It would be my pleasure to give you a hand and I give you a special "customers only" contact address within the manual.



I REALLY want you to be successful at getting back the love of your life…I will take you by the hand and...



-Get you in the right frame of mind. (panic mode won't work)

-Assess where you are in the heart and mind of your ex.

-Based on where you are give you a step by step proven "love map" to get you where you want to go.

-Teach you what you need to do to keep them once you are back together.


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The Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker

The Magic Of Making Up

The Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker


If your ex is at the 'Weebly Wobbly
Fence Walker' stage then at a mere drop
of a feather you can easily win them back.

In fact, this is one of the most
common stages and I have helped hundreds
of guys and gals through this stage
in a matter of days. (sometimes hours)

So what is a 'Weebly Wobbly Fence
Walker'?

The WAY (not why or how) people make
decisions can be compared to a person,
a fence and the old metaphor of 'being
on the fence'.

There are 3 stages:

1. Off the fence, happy and
not willing to get on the fence.

2. On the fence and stable. Can
see both options, but has a preference.

3. 'Weebly Wobbly' stage is most common
right BEFORE or right AFTER a big decision.

Now, the BIGGER the decision, the HIGHER
the fence feels to the person teetering
at the top.

This is a normal decision making process
for most medium and major decisions. (small
ones too, but there is little fear involved
because the fence is so low we don't recognize
it.)

Think about your last large purchase?

A car maybe?

For a long time you were satisfied with
your transportation and the last thing
in the world you put yourself through
is the 'hell' of buying a new car.
(Off the fence)

But then...old faithful started to hiccup
a bit, and then the hiccup turned into
a cough and pretty soon you were 'on the
fence', but not really entertaining the details.

(On the fence and stable)

Finally, because of a repair bill or
comment made by a friend, etc... you
go out and actually start looking at
your options, this is when it gets
scarier.

You're starting to wobble...

You lament..."for the new car I am going
to need $2,000 down and $500 a month plus
my insurance is going to go up."

"Ughhh..."

Maybe I should just sink some more
money into old faithful? She's probably
got another couple years left in her?

"Huhhhhh...."

But I sure do like the way that new
Charger looks and I love the way she
purrs!

I DON'T KNOW!!!

(Weebly Wobbly Stage)

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WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!
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When someone is at the 'Weebly Wobbly'
stage, they can be extremely emotional and
may lash out!

And as easy as it can be to get them
back on your side.

If you aren't cautious and have a
strategy you will push them over to the
OTHER SIDE.

Going back to our car example. How
did you react to the auto salesperson
when you were in 'Weebly Wobbly' mode
last time?

Most react something along the lines of

"GO AWAY! Let me make my OWN DECISION!"

Right?

Let's go back to our fence example.

You are standing 25 feet off the ground
on a very narrow fence. You dizzily look down
and the height seems more like 50 or 100 feet. Your
legs are tired and your arms are out trying
to balance. You're SCARED.

You don't know which way to go?

And then you spot somebody walking towards
you.

You tell them to "Keep their distance."

But they ignore you and move closer...

Frantically you yell..."STAY AWAY!!!"

"S-T-A-Y A-W-A-Y"

In the Magic Of Making Up System I
show you how to get your ex from
"off the fence" to "on the fence"
and all the way to "weebly wobbly".

Then it is just a matter of the right
counterintuitive moves to get them
to come down on the fence on
YOUR SIDE.

However, your ex may already be at
"weebly wobbly".

Do they seem to want you back one minute?

Only to tell you or indicate they want
space the next?

Do they get upset when you try to push?

Then they are at 'weebly wobbly'.

What you do next can bring you both
back together...

or...

Make them turn tail and jump the fence
in the opposite direction.

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Do You Still Have A Chance With Your Ex?

Get Back My Ex Today

Do You Still Have A Chance With Your Ex?

Your chances of reuniting with your ex may be
greater than you think.

After helping hundreds of couples reunite, I
have observed several clues that can help
you take the temperature of your partners
likeliness to reunite with you.

Shockingly, even when an ex partner sings
an opposite tune, if these behavioral clues
exist, you would be better off to ignore
the 'music' and instead 'follow the clues'.

Much like Sherlock Holmes follows the
EVIDENCE and pays little attention to
what the suspects say.

Over the next few days I will be sending
you a clue a day.

I hope these clues will help you gauge your
chances with reuniting with your ex :-)

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Clue #1
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Your ex still shows ANY KIND OF EMOTION
towards you or your actions.
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Remember, the opposite of love is NOT
hate!

The opposite of love is complete and
utter indifference.

Here's some proof:

If your ex found out that you went
out on a date with someone else last
night, would they be miffed, angry, hurt
or just completely and utterly care less?

It's only if they couldn't give two flips
that you have a LOT of work to do!

Other emotions offer more proof.

Think about anybody you are angry with
or have been really angry with for more
than a couple days?

Chances are that you care for that person
deeply because we only 'give' that level of
extreme anger to someone that is important
to us.

We will be mad at the person who cuts us
off in traffic for only a couple minutes.

But, in my family at least, nasty grudges have
been held FOR YEARS over a few stinging words
said in haste.

Sad really because the love and caring is
STILL THERE. In many cases, a truly effective
apology is all that is needed to restore the
relationship quickly.

(See the Clean Slate Method for truly effective
apologies in the Magic Of Making Up System.)

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The Birth Of “How To Get Her Back For Good”...

I Want Him So Bad - How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

You have been seeing the same guy for a while now. As far as you can tell things are just lovely between the two of you. He calls you up and tells you, he needs to see you, because it is very important.

You begin to think, what he could he possibly want to talk to me about that is so important. Maybe he is ready to take it to the next level. Could he be ready to make a real commitment?

The two of you meet and he tells you he loves you. But, he needs some time to himself to think things over. It's not you, he tries to explain, but you do not want to hear it. The only thing you can think about is, what in the world just happened?

On your way home you are thinking, how can I get my ex boyfriend back?

First, ask yourself this question. Do I really want him back? This is something you must think long and hard about. Deep down inside you want him, but are you really sure?

Take some serious time to think about it. You need to have an clear mind in order to make the right decision.

After you have thought about it and you have decided to fight to keep your man. Take it one step at a time. Ease up and put yourself first, because he is the one who broke up with you. It is not going to be easy, but with the right frame of mind, you can do it.

Here is the way you handle the situation:

1. Do not call him
2. Do not text him
3. Do not try to contact him through his friends or family
4. Do not give him any special treatment

Try as hard as you can to keep your mind off of him. Do something that you enjoy doing by yourself. It is understandable that you may have done a lot with him and for him, but there are still some things you enjoyed doing by yourself.

Waiting for a text message or a phone call is not what you should be doing. Let him come back to you. If that man still loves you he will come back to you and if he does not love you, he won't. When you ask yourself, how can i get my ex boyfriend back? Think before you leap. You do not want to leap out so far that you find it hard for you to return.

How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

The Birth Of “How To Get Her Back For Good”...

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From The Man That Has Secretly Helped 6,100 People In 67 Countries...

Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying...

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them



…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C...defensiveness...arguments...and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn't really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back



…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.



But, please know…this is not your fault! You weren't taught this in school. You probably weren't taught this by your parents…and there is no "get your ex back" night school...



Yeah?



And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? ..Cars?...Money?...Clothes?...ALGEBRA?



So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, but very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?



Crazy huh?



But now as you will soon see...all that has changed.

Virtually Immediate Benefits

1. How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression...You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)



2. Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don't care what they say... This is all you need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)



3. Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)



4. Do you know the core reason why men leave women? ...it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED most women can't answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours FOREVER. (Page 5)



5. What women crave the most... and if she doesn't get it…it is only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan's use to steal married women.) (Page 6)



6. Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to your advantage. (Page 18)



7. Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the "clean slate" technique in conjunction with one other secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness in the shortest amount of time. (Special Bonus Included)



8. When to apologize and when you shouldn't. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)



9. The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)



10. Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you can. Quickly and easily.



11. The Instant Reconnect Technique - I almost didn't include this one because it may be too potent. It is "psychological judo" and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it. (Page 43)



12. Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)



13. The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome). This is relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it, let alone tell you how it is done. Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad. Once you own The Magic Of Making Up you will possess the power to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!



14. Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process. Both men and women get this completely wrong. Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly destroy your chances because you sleep with him too soon. (Page 46-48)



15. What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help put you in balance. Putting your relationship back together is hard enough, make sure you are eating foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)



16. Decisions you should actually put off until you are back together. (Page 60)



17. How to use the Fast Forward Technique to overcome hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self esteem and other challenges that stem from negative feelings. (Page 14)



18. Recapture the romance you had when love your love was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the techniques in Chapter 4.



19. Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6, he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind - (It's just the way men are wired.)- He will start CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makes!



20. Afraid you will just start fighting again once your back together? How to diffuse arguments before they start. This is so simple and works so well you will swear it's "magic"...and it only takes one person!



21. And a whole lot more…



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Get My Ex Back Today

Works For Long Distance Relationships Too...

Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a 21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in ...By now, I had the strength to actually "sleep on it" and sent him a response the next day...within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.

Thanks again,
Denise

Get My Ex Back Today




The Birth Of “How To Get Her Back For Good”...

Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Are there 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"


BUT...

***********
WARNING!
***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.

<<The Magic Of Making UP>>

If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER
works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

************
2nd WARNING!
************

Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

<<The Magic Of Making Up>>

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==><<The Magic Of Making Up>>

Rooting For You,

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