The Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker

The Magic Of Making Up

The Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker


If your ex is at the 'Weebly Wobbly
Fence Walker' stage then at a mere drop
of a feather you can easily win them back.

In fact, this is one of the most
common stages and I have helped hundreds
of guys and gals through this stage
in a matter of days. (sometimes hours)

So what is a 'Weebly Wobbly Fence
Walker'?

The WAY (not why or how) people make
decisions can be compared to a person,
a fence and the old metaphor of 'being
on the fence'.

There are 3 stages:

1. Off the fence, happy and
not willing to get on the fence.

2. On the fence and stable. Can
see both options, but has a preference.

3. 'Weebly Wobbly' stage is most common
right BEFORE or right AFTER a big decision.

Now, the BIGGER the decision, the HIGHER
the fence feels to the person teetering
at the top.

This is a normal decision making process
for most medium and major decisions. (small
ones too, but there is little fear involved
because the fence is so low we don't recognize
it.)

Think about your last large purchase?

A car maybe?

For a long time you were satisfied with
your transportation and the last thing
in the world you put yourself through
is the 'hell' of buying a new car.
(Off the fence)

But then...old faithful started to hiccup
a bit, and then the hiccup turned into
a cough and pretty soon you were 'on the
fence', but not really entertaining the details.

(On the fence and stable)

Finally, because of a repair bill or
comment made by a friend, etc... you
go out and actually start looking at
your options, this is when it gets
scarier.

You're starting to wobble...

You lament..."for the new car I am going
to need $2,000 down and $500 a month plus
my insurance is going to go up."

"Ughhh..."

Maybe I should just sink some more
money into old faithful? She's probably
got another couple years left in her?

"Huhhhhh...."

But I sure do like the way that new
Charger looks and I love the way she
purrs!

I DON'T KNOW!!!

(Weebly Wobbly Stage)

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WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!
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When someone is at the 'Weebly Wobbly'
stage, they can be extremely emotional and
may lash out!

And as easy as it can be to get them
back on your side.

If you aren't cautious and have a
strategy you will push them over to the
OTHER SIDE.

Going back to our car example. How
did you react to the auto salesperson
when you were in 'Weebly Wobbly' mode
last time?

Most react something along the lines of

"GO AWAY! Let me make my OWN DECISION!"

Right?

Let's go back to our fence example.

You are standing 25 feet off the ground
on a very narrow fence. You dizzily look down
and the height seems more like 50 or 100 feet. Your
legs are tired and your arms are out trying
to balance. You're SCARED.

You don't know which way to go?

And then you spot somebody walking towards
you.

You tell them to "Keep their distance."

But they ignore you and move closer...

Frantically you yell..."STAY AWAY!!!"

"S-T-A-Y A-W-A-Y"

In the Magic Of Making Up System I
show you how to get your ex from
"off the fence" to "on the fence"
and all the way to "weebly wobbly".

Then it is just a matter of the right
counterintuitive moves to get them
to come down on the fence on
YOUR SIDE.

However, your ex may already be at
"weebly wobbly".

Do they seem to want you back one minute?

Only to tell you or indicate they want
space the next?

Do they get upset when you try to push?

Then they are at 'weebly wobbly'.

What you do next can bring you both
back together...

or...

Make them turn tail and jump the fence
in the opposite direction.

The Magic Of Making Up