Thursday

Get Ex Back - Keeping In Touch With The Ex


Keeping In Touch With The Ex

Do NOT confuse keeping in touch
with the ominous 'lets be friends'.

While 'let's be friends' sends waves
of panic to the receiver, it is really
quite neutral.

It's the amount of contact after the
words 'let's be friends' that is the
dead give away.

Hearing 'let's be friends' and then
ZERO contact means, you got a whole lot
of work ahead of you.

However, if it is followed up by any
means of regular contact, such as:

1. Phone calls
2. Text messages
3. IM's
4. Surprise visits

This means something MUCH DIFFERENT.

( IMPORTANT NOTE: If you have kids, pets or shared
property then any relevant conversation regarding
those topics does NOT count as contact. But, if it often
strays into other topics, then do count that as 'keeping
in touch'.)

In my correspondence and assistance of hundreds
of other couples I have concluded two reasons.

One reason is shiny, bright and sounds good. Which
is they really do fear losing the friendship. (very rare)

The second, although darker, rings true far
more often is...

They are keeping you on a tether as an 'emergency
backup' relationship. In case:

1. The relationship they are currently in (sometimes
secretly) bombs out.

or..

2. Nothing better comes along.

This is so common. Hardly a day goes by that
I don't talk with someone that is so confused
because their ex keeps giving off positive signals,
but as soon as they 'act' on one of those signals,
the ex goes BERSERK and reconfirms that they ARE NOT
in a relationship.

While finding yourself on either side or both
of those reasons will suck a little pep from
your stride, there is a silver lining.

It means you are still the #1 romantic interest
in their life.

They may not want to feel that way! They will
never admit it to themselves or you. But, they
still see you as #1

As long as they have you on the 'tether', they
are feeling unsure of how their current relationship
or life for that matter will turn out without you.

In my experience, This is a favorable 'hand of
cards' for you and if you play those cards as I lay out
in the Magic Of Making Up System, you'll have better
odds at getting them back than any game you'll
ever play in Las Vegas.


The Birth Of “How To Get Her Back For Good”...